Sexuality is something which cannot be confined; it covers a wider number of issues. It is basically a umbrella term which can have many perspectives. Sexuality is political as well as very personal and sensitive issues. Human Sexuality is something that seems to dominate a lot of the world we live in. It’s in our schools, at work, and especially in the mass media. The way your body develops and the way you feel and respond to others sexually creates your sexuality. It can shape and affect people’s lives as well as our own. It is concerned with the fact that how one gender feels attracted towards the other gender. It’s about the sexual feeling towards other that a person can have irrespective of his gender. Sexuality is often mistaken by the person with whom one has sex with; one can take time to explore his or her sexuality. The sexuality of a Person can get influenced by culture, family, media, religion, experiences, and friends. Some people are very sexual, while others experience no sexual attraction at all. No matter how sexuality gets considered important to a person, each has desires, thoughts, values and attractions that are considered unique.
There are usually taboos about sexualities and people are often uncomfortable to discuss about their sexuality. This probation generally does not allow an individual to explore his or her actual sexuality. For instance, in India one is always expected to be heterosexual that is to be attracted to opposite sex and not the same. Attraction towards same sex is still considered as sin in many parts of the world. For this reason sexuality can produce confusion, anxiety and fear. Sexuality includes much more than just sex. It includes anatomy, biological sex, gender, sexual orientation, relationships, and sexual behaviors. Applying the sociological approaches will give us a better understanding of human sexuality.
Sexuality as a concept also has gender bias to itself. Women sexuality and male sexuality are looked very differently. Female Sexuality has been a controversial subject that plays a crucial role in our everyday lives. There is a constant double standard women face. In terms of sexuality both males and females are more similar than society deems them. There is a never ending battle of hypocrisy that women face when it comes to sexuality. These problems are influenced by gender roles, socialization, and even religion. It is considered a conquest for men to have many sexual encounters. This has a religious aspect to it. Women are supposed t be non sexual objects and women having sexual desire are considered to be prude according to many religious texts across religions. Women’s sexuality has been anything but stagnant, especially within the last 150 years. The very idea of a woman being a “sexual being” is relatively modern. For centuries, women have been confined to restrictive behaviors until the rise of the sexual revolution in the 1960’s. Women are considered sexual objects but are expected to be virtuous. Media also have huge influence on how women sexuality is seen. Media from centuries through movies, plays, dance, songs and other sorts of forms have shown women as someone to be “looked upon” and women having sexual desires as flawed. It has given the concept of” good women” and “bad women”. Sexuality of women have often mistaken by “honor” of women which is resultant of great inequality of perspective in men and women sexuality. Women should be encouraged to embrace their sexualities safely and positively and seek the empowerment and self-discovery that can come from it.Queer sexuality is till date not even discussed or talked about. Their sexuality is considered something very unnatural, sinful and generally disregarded.
Although sexuality is a significant part of our modern-day culture in movies, videos, and other celebrity induced trends, it is still a subject that isn’t easily discussed. Sexuality is a reality that it plays an important role throughout our lives. It intertwines physiological, psychological, and social character of one person. Ideally, sexuality of a person should be considered as a personal issue. Society should allow one to express their sexuality and should not impose them any. One should free to explore his or her sexuality and be confident and proud about it, rather being judged on the basis of it.