Because of its importance, sex has become one of the most debated topics in the modern world. Various religions restrict their followers from taking part in this activity. In Christianity, sex is widely accepted, even though marriage is used to control people’s morals. According to belief, sex is essential because it helps individuals reproduce and derive pleasure.
Understanding the concept of Christianity requires one to consider the Jewish population that existed during Jesus Christ’s time on earth. Most of His movements when he was alive involved this community.Today, it has become the most popular religion, with about 2 billion people subscribing to it. Importantly, this faith revolves around the life of Christ from birth to resurrection. Some of the most common beliefs in the creed include the conviction that only one God exists, and all people should worship Him; Jesus will one day come back; and The cross is the main symbol of Jesus’ crucifixion and resurrection.
Many people consider Christianity an anti-sexual religion because its followers have strict rules about the practice. However, there is little evidence in the bible that god prevents people from having sex. In fact, the Holy Book posits that sex is such a sensitive and powerful activity that people need to use boundaries such as marriage to ensure they engage in it for the righteous reasons (‘The Biblical View of Sexuality,’ 2017). In addition, the Bible asserts that the human body is important to the creator; thus, they should treat it with care because it is His temple. Moreover, the scripture dissuades people from using sex for sinful activity in the verse, “Put to death the sinful, earthly things lurking within you. Have nothing to do with sexual sin, impurity, lust, and shameful desires” (‘Bible Gateway passage: Colossians 3:5 – New International Version,’ n.d.). In such a way, the individuals that sin through sex are considered to have fallen short of God’s eternal kingdom and are deemed to perish.
The right time for people to engage in sexual activity has long been divisive. Many biblical texts use terms like ‘sexual sin’ and ‘sexual immorality’ to refer to sexual behavior that contradicts biblical rules. According to many accounts of the Christian faith, an individual should only have sex after marriage (Farah, 2001). In as much as the Bible does not set an age limit on sex, it alludes to the need for people to wait until they are married to have intercourse. This point is illustrated in the verse, ‘Marriage should be honoured by all, and the marriage bed kept pure, for God will judge the adulterer and all the sexually immoral’ (‘Bible Gateway passage: Hebrews 13:4 – New International Version,’ n.d.). Thus, people should respect each other’s bodies by waiting until the time when they have a matrimonial union to have sex.
Furthermore, it is important to understand the sexual purposes of christians in the bible. It’s worth noting that the bible encourages people who believe in the bible to engage in ongoing sexual activity for a variety of reasons. First, people should use it to give birth. For instance, the Bible states, ‘And God blessed them; and God said to them, ‘Be fruitful and multiply, and fill the earth, and subdue it; and rule over the fish of the sea and over the birds of the sky, and over every living thing that moves on the earth’ (‘Bible Gateway passage: Genesis 1:28 – New International Version,’ n.d.). The excerpt means that God has given His people permission to have sexual intercourse for them to give birth to children and multiply the world population. Therefore, this explanation mirrors the happiness that people have once they get a child in their families.
Secondly, Christians use sex for intimacy. In a world full of disagreements, two married people find the happiness they need in marriage through sexual intercourse. The act of sleeping together alone is enough to help them solve their differences within a short time. In addition, it is an appropriate way for people to appreciate the value of their loved ones. Many Biblical verses support the assertion. For instance, the scripture states, ‘Like an apple tree among the trees of the forest, so is my beloved among the young men. In his shade, I took great delight and sat down, and his fruit was sweet to my taste’ (‘Bible Gateway passage: Song of Solomon 2:3 – King James Version,’ n.d.). This verse illustrates a woman’s joy and happiness in the presence of her lover. In such a way, sex helps strengthen the bond between two people who love each other.
Furthermore, Christians use sex for companionship. In the Bible, God created Adam and Eve and left them naked to emphasize the holiness and wholesomeness of the state. Impliedly, two loved ones derive a sense of companionship when they are naked in the presence of each other. In addition, the Book of Hebrews uses the term ‘knowing’ to refer to sex, implying that people understand each other more closely through sex. By helping individuals to appreciate a partner’s emotions and feelings, sexual intercourse promotes a sense of unity and companionship.
Lastly, Christianity views sex as the means to derive physical pleasure. In as much as many people believe that it was only meant for procreation, the act also helps them to relax. In fact, the Bible forbids two married people from denying each other the opportunity to use their bodies. This point is illustrated in the verse,
‘Do not deprive each other of sexual relations, unless you both agree to refrain from sexual intimacy for a limited time so you can give yourselves more completely to prayer. Afterward, you should come together again so that Satan won’t be able to tempt you because of your lack of self-control’ (‘1 Corinthians 7:5,’ n.d.).
From the given statement, sex makes people happy because it enables them to have pleasure, relax, and control their emotions.
In conclusion, the above-presented discussion has illustrated the Christian view of sexuality. As indicated, the act is widely encouraged by the Bible for reasons such as procreation and the derivation of pleasure. The only restriction is that people should practice it after marriage because it helps them to observe societal moral standards. Thus, sex is fundamental to the survival and sustainability of Christian marriages.
- Corinthians 7:5. (n.d.). Retrieved from https://biblehub.com/1_corinthians/7-5.htm
- Bible Gateway passage: Colossians 3:5 – New International Version. (n.d.). Retrieved from https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Colossians+3%3A5&version=NIV.
- Bible Gateway passage: Genesis 1:28 – New International Version. (n.d.). Retrieved from https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Genesis+1%3A28&version=NIV.
- Bible Gateway passage: Hebrews 13:4 – New International Version. (n.d.). Retrieved from https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Hebrews+13%3A4&version=NIV.
- Bible Gateway passage: Song of Solomon 2:3 – King James Version. (n.d.). Retrieved from https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Song+of+Solomon+2%3A3&version=KJV.
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- Farah, G. (2001, March 14). What does the Bible say about sex before marriage? Retrieved from https://www.crosswalk.com/family/marriage/what-does-the-bible-say-about-sex-before-marriage-510492.html.