There are always people who have high expectations of their vision of the “American dream” and those who don’t even know a clue about it. In description, the American Dream is portrayed as anyone, regardless of class or race, achieving success through hard work, determination, and sacrifice. This is usually depicted as a “rags-to-riches” terminology. Sometimes, it would take a lifetime of experience for someone to really understand themselves what they desire and how he/she would achieve it. As for myself, the American Dream is portrayed as being financially stable and being able to balance life and work. Pursuing and earning a wholesome career is something that I define as being “successful,” fulfilling my life dreams that make me happy. There are a whole lot of things that need to be completed to get to life of living the “American Dream!”
Starting from the beginning of this long journey, declaring myself as a Psychology major resonates with my dreams of getting the career I want. I chose this major because I f*cking love it! The study of the mind and behavior of people intrigues me. Also, my love of helping others through tough times allowed me to generate a career that suited me. With the ongoing trend of upcoming generations struggling with mental health, I strongly believe that mental health is of utmost importance for everyone. I hope to obtain a Master’s degree in Psychology, which will allow me to obtain a career of being a mental health counselor. From my childhood, struggling with mental health had a big impact on choosing my career since I don’t people to experience it like I once did. They are healthcare professionals who help patients manage or overcome mental/emotional disorders or problems with their families and relationships. Salary earnings in this profession start at $29,841 and up to $57,067 per year (increases today due to demand for jobs). The first couple years of college will be one of the biggest moments that set my path to achieving the American Dream I desire to obtain.
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During my early transition from early to mid-twenties, this is the time of my ongoing transition of moving into early adulthood. The stage of my life consists of moving into an apartment with roommates, working side jobs for extra money, and continuing my education for my Bachelor's and Associate’s degree in Psychology. During this period, I would also have my own car and try to intern for my career. Hopefully, the prices for renting these apartments with roommates would fall between $550-$800. Preferably, these places that I’m renting would be around the school campus (i.e. Huntington Beach, Hawaiian Gardens, Long Beach, or Cerritos) so I won’t have to commute far to college. Speaking from a person with a limited budget, I am usually a saver and don’t spend a lot on materialistic things. In a like manner, my mother’s experience of going through a recession impacted how I manage my finances overall. In “Recession Generation,” reporter Sharon Jayson talked to Richard Curtin, an economist who directs consumer surveys at the University of Michigan, on how an economic recession can affect young adults’ vision of the future by being more “orientated toward economic security and relationships” and “less toward spending” (167). Living through a recession greatly impacts the methods someone saves money and how he/she will spend it. Looking at how my mother reacted to this recession during that time oriented me to be focused on being financially stable rather than being materialistic. Eventually, once I receive my college degree, this will allow me to further advance in my life and proceed closer to my “dream.”
In transition from my late twenties to my thirties, was the peak of my adulthood where I achieved my American Dream. Once I receive my Master’s degree, I can now find the career job I’m hoping for. As my mother is my role model, her perseverance in going through the harsh transitions of being a Vietnam War refugee and then having a high-paying job inspires me to strive to my fullest potential. She had gone through hell and back (along with sacrifices) just to get to where she is today and I call that the “American Dream!” I will strive to have a job like hers to make her feel proud of the sons she raised up. Along with having a satisfying job, this time is when I would repay my student loans. Once I transitioned over throughout my age, I would stumble onto a lovely companion whom I would call my wife around age 30-35. I would be a lovely father of two children and I could teach them life lessons of being kind and compassionate, just as the altruistic person I am today. We would move into a condo, preferably with rents around $1,200 - $1,800 with three rooms. In my opinion, I would prefer renting to buying a house because I want to be able to travel more and be less stressed than paying property tax (mortgage tax, tax property, etc.). From a beach lover's perspective, this place would usually be in a beach town (i.e. Santa Barbara or Santa Monica). Even though the rent would increase over time, I know that my wife and I would be at our hardest to pay the bills on time. This stage of life has allowed me to achieve my American Dream altogether.
On behalf of adulthood, I define this term as being financially independent with a stable career that pays you well, along with having a loving wife and children. For myself, I don’t really emphasize getting married very early just like my distant cousin once did. Conceiving children without having a stable job (since she was a full-time student) led her to drop out of college and work. Believing in financial responsibility, I urge that getting a job is essential and is before getting married and having children altogether. The lesson is that one bad choice can ruin your whole future ahead of you.
In conclusion, going down this timeline would help me achieve the American Dream I always wanted. Having two children, a good-paying job, and a beach condo is f*cking heaven to me! I would die to get a lifestyle like that. We all have ambitions to achieve our dreams in life. Having a dream and goals helps us maintain confidence and determination to succeed, no matter how harsh life can be. Without having an American Dream, what would life be for an American?
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