Negotiation Simulation Ground Rules
Many of you may not have participated in a negotiation simulation before. Therefore, it is
important that you understand the following ground rules, all of which are designed to
maximize the realism of the situation for you and for your negotiation counterpart.
RULE #1: This is not acting.
You are about to participate in a role-play negotiation case. Please understand that this is
not an exercise in acting. In other words, your task is not to act as through you were someone
else, but rather to be yourself and imagine that you were in the situation described in your
“Confidential Instructions.” Treat the situation pretty much as you would if it were a real
negotiation.
RULE #2: Prepare by yourself. Please do not exchange instructions or view anyone else’s
materials, even if they are assigned to the same role as you.
You each have a set of confidential instructions to provide you with background
information on the cases. But in the real world, we don’t have confidential instructions. So if
someone tells you, “I’m sorry, this is the lowest I can go,” you have to decide whether or not to
trust him or her. You can’t say, “Prove it to me by showing me your confidential instructions.”
Therefore, you cannot do that here either. It’s fine to look at your own confidential instructions
or your personal notes while you negotiate, but you are not permitted to show your instructions
to your counterpart(s) for any reason. Even outside of your negotiation itself, please do not look
at anyone else’s materials or let anyone see your materials, even if someone else is playing the
same role and you think they have the exact same instructions as you. If for some reason you
misplace anything, please obtain a new copy from your TF.
RULE #3: You may need to make up information, but do not make up information that
changes the basic power relationship between the parties.
For example, if your counterpart were to ask you, “How many years have you been
working for this company?” you wouldn’t be able to find the answer to that question in your
confidential instructions, so you need to make something up. But please do not make up
information that changes the whole nature of the situation, such as, “I’ve been with the company
for 40 years and as a matter of fact my grandfather founded this company!...etc.” Some people
find it’s easiest, when asked a question like, “So where did you go to school?” to simply answer
with information pertaining to themselves in real life. That way they don’t have to make things
up as they go along.
RULE #4: Stay “in role” throughout the entire negotiation, and do not discuss the case
with anyone until after the next class, when this exercise will be discussed.
For example, you may be tempted at certain points in the negotiation to make a comment
about the process, such as “Hold on, can you explain to me the strategy you’re using right now?”
But again, that would not be very realistic, and you’re shortchanging your counterpart’s
experience when you do that. So please try to stay in role the entire time. Even when you finish
your negotiation, simply shake hands (or whatever) and then part ways. Please do not discuss the
process or the case at all until after the class involving a case or exercise is over because it may
hinder the learning experience for you and your counterpart(s).