Increasing Self-Confidence in Children.pdf

Increasing Self-Confidence in Children Self-confidence is a very important provision for a child's success when they grow up. Our children meet adults who are shy and do not dare to appear in public. This is because such a person lacks self-confidence, despite being someone a successful leader should have the courage to appear in public to make a speech or even something presentation. From this activity, we can conclude that self-confidence is very important for such people's success. So, training or growing self-confidence is necessary from an early age or from childhood. So, what are the tips for making children grow up? someone who has an optimal level of selfconfidence? Here are tips for training or foster self-confidence in children. 1. KNOW YOUR CHILD'S DISADVANTAGES For example, children are usually born with advantages and disadvantages different. As a parent, of course you should be able to know the advantages and disadvantages which is in her baby. Maybe this will be noticed when the child starts to enjoy it formal education. When a child has an advantage in the spirit of good art or sports hobbies in the eyes of sports. Of course, as a parent you should recognize this, and support it as long as it is the right thing positive. Children have found activities that suit their interests, so they feel confident it will be easier for oneself to grow and parents will even find it easier to train self-confidence in children. If the child has a good voice, then parents can help find a suitable activity for your child. For example, giving singing lessons to become a singer, or a suggestion from a child to a Qur'an tahfidz Islamic boarding school to become one Qori. 2. GIVE A CHILD A SPECIAL GIFT Always next is if the child does something special give something special make children feel big. Children with notes intend to train or grow self-confidence in children. For example, if your child succeeds in becoming class champion, sometimes praise him with nice words, like praising with the word wow... Your child is smart, your child is great. With words like that, it can definitely make a child's heart happy and feel appreciated for his hard work. Children, don't let your proud words be excessive. 3. GIVE WISE AND KIND WORDS It's best to say nice words to your child in every situation, whatever when the child does something special or even when the child does something which is erroneous. The child, when the child needs confidence to do something, give it encourage him with words that can support him to be able to do it. Your child's energy can definitely do it, it's easy for your child. 4. AVOID WORDS THAT COULD OFFEND CHILDREN Still related to the above, don't let your parents tell you children say harsh words, shout at them, let alone act violently. Child this will certainly offend the child, and the child will fall and decline mental state and level of self-confidence. This kind of thing can also make a child grow up to be someone who is inferior or not have self-confidence. A child like that, the child's hope of becoming a successful person increases reduce. 5. DON'T COMPARE CHILDREN Every parent also needs to pay attention to this child, because every child certainly has one advantages and disadvantages, each child definitely has differences. So, even though it's something that... good for your child, try not to compare him with his sibling, friends or anyone else. About comparing the bad things to something like that can be annoying psychology, the opposite is also true if you compare the good things creates feelings of pride in children. 6. TEACH GOOD COMMUNICATION Always the last thing in this article is to get used to communicating with children, so that children more accustomed to chatting and communicating. Children's self-confidence can be trained and grows if the child is used to communicating. When parents diligently communicate with their children, the children will be more active when they are having fun communicate. When children will definitely ask questions and it is possible that children will bring out the thoughts in your heart or the inspirations that are in your mind. Learn the tips in this article, namely tips for training children to be confident. Self-confidence is something that is very important for the child, because it will increase the level his success will be when he grows up. Therefore, as a parent, you must be internally disciplined educate their children. Because whatever we do and what we do will be followed by him child.