Concept of Sexual Needs

Concept of Sexual Needs  Sexual needs are basic human needs in the form of expressing feelings between two people individual individuals who respect each other, pay attention and love each other so that There is a reciprocal relationship between the two individuals. Sexual meaning is viewed from several aspects: 1. Biological aspectÿ this aspect looks from a biological perspective such as an anatomical view and the physiology of the reproductive (sexual) system, the abilities of the sex organs and the presence of hormones as well nervous system that functions or is related to sexual needs. 2. Psychological Aspect  This aspect is a view of gender identity, a feeling of oneself towards awareness of one's identity and viewing sexual or sexual images another form of self-concept. 3. Socio-Cultural Aspects  This aspect looks at the cultural views or beliefs that prevail in society regarding sexual needs or behavior in society Sexual development 1. Prenatal period and infancy According to Sigmund Freud, the stages of psychosexual development are: a. Oral stage ÿ occurs at age 0-1 year. Satisfaction, pleasure or enjoyment is achieved with how to suck, bite, chew or make sounds. Children are very dependent high and always asks to be protected to feel safe. Problem: weaning and Eat b. Anal stage ÿ occurs at age 1-3 years. Satisfaction of this stage at the time of excretion of feces. Child began to show his ego, his attitude was very narcissistic (selflove) and selfish. Children begin to learn about their body structure and are trained in hygiene. 2. Childhood  Psychosexual stage: 1. Oedipal/phallic stage ÿ aged 3-5 years, the child's satisfaction lies in autoerotic stimulation namely groping, feeling pleasure from several areas of the area. Child starts like other types. Boys tend to like their mothers more than their fathers. 2. Girls tend to like their father more than their mother. Child starts identify her gender whether male or female, learn through interaction with parental figures & developing gender roles. 3. Latent stageÿ aged 5-12 years, the child's satisfaction begins to be integrated, entering the period puberty and dealing directly with social demands such as liking relationships with group or peers, the libido urge begins to subside. 4. During this school period, children ask a lot of questions about sexual matters through interactions with adults, reading or fantasizing. 2. Puberty  Psychological changes occur marked by changes in body image image), considerable attention to changes in body function, learning about behavior, social conditions and other changes such as changes in weight, TB, development muscles, pubic hair, breasts / menstruation for women.  During this period physical maturity occurs from the sexual aspect and sexual maturity occurs psychosocial.  The genital stage occurs at age > 12 years.  The child's satisfaction rises again and leads to feelings of mature love towards him the opposite sex. 3. Young Adulthood and middle age  At this stage physical development is sufficient and secondary sexual characteristics are achieved The peak is aged 18-30 years.  In middle age, hormonal changes occur.  women are characterized by a decrease in estrogen, reduction of breast and vaginal tissue, decreased vaginal discharge & erectile reaction.  Men are characterized by a decrease in penis & semen size.  From psychosocial development, intimate relationships between the opposite sex have begun to occur, the process of marriage and having children results in a change in roles. 4. Older Adulthood - Female changes ÿ atrophy of vagina and breast tissue, decreased vaginal discharge & orgasm intensity. - Male changesÿ decreased sperm production, reduced orgasm intensity, Delay in achieving an erection and enlargement of the prostate gland Sexual deviation in adults 1. Pedophiliaÿ sexual satisfaction is achieved with the object of children. S/S there is a fantasy of having a relationship sexual relations with children under puberty. Causes of mental disorders, for example: schizophrenia, organic sadism or organic personality disorder. 2. Exhibitionism Sexual satisfaction is achieved by exposing the genitals in public. This happened suddenly in front of a stranger but there was no effort to having sexual relations. 3. fetishism Sexual satisfaction is achieved by using sex objects such as high shoes, underwear, stockings. Causes of abnormal sexual experimentation and surgical replacement sex. 4. Transvestism Sexual satisfaction is achieved by wearing clothes of the opposite sex and acting out roles opposite sex, for example men like to use women's underwear. 5. Transsexualism This form of sexual deviation is characterized by feelings of displeasure towards the tool gender & the desire to change gender. 6. Voyerism/Scopophilia  Sexual gratification is achieved by viewing another person's genitals or sexual activity what other people do. 7. Masochism Sexual satisfaction is achieved through violence or being physically hurt first or psychological. 8. Sadism - Is the opposite of masochism. - Sexual satisfaction is achieved by hurting one's partner both physically and mentally psychological. - Cause: rape & wrong education 9. Homosexuality & Lesbianism - Sexual attraction is characterized by physical or emotional attraction to Same-sex. - Sexual satisfaction is achieved through relationships with people of the same sex. 10. Zoophilia Sexual satisfaction is achieved by using animal objects 11. Sodomy Sexual satisfaction is achieved by intercourse through the anus 12. Necropilia Sexual satisfaction is achieved by using corpse objects 13. Coprophilia Sexual satisfaction is achieved by using fecal objects 14. Urolagnia Sexual satisfaction is achieved by using a urine object that is drunk. 15. Oral sex/ Kunilingus Sexual satisfaction is achieved by using the mouth on the female genitals 16. Felaxio Sexual satisfaction is achieved by using the mouth on the male genitals 17. Frictionism/Frictionism Sexual satisfaction is achieved by rubbing the penis on the woman's buttocks. 18. Goronto Sexual satisfaction is achieved through intimate relationships 19. Frottage Sexual satisfaction is achieved by touching the person you like without your opponent knowing type 20. Pornography Images/writings created specifically to provide sexual stimulation