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What does this honestly mean? To begin with, I personally strongly agree with what that message is trying to imply and I prefer someone whom either I know or don’t know to come up to me and tell me the truth to my face, than somebody who will not be honest and forthright with you and talk about you behind your back?
First of all, not many people can be blessed with the title of a 'friend'. In a person's everyday life, an individual meets many people however, just a few of them leave a good impression on their life and memory. In almost all cases most of the people who surround us are insincere and deceitful. We don’t get the experience of true friendship straight away, we may think that we have true friends, but as time goes by, they end up showing their true colors. For example, I had a personal experience in primary school, where me and my friends who were extremely close ended up fighting right after graduation. I was bullied because I personally liked anime and BTS, or according to him it was all the Asian stuff, but the important thing to know was, that the guy making fun of me, also liked anime! We ended our friendship after that incident and I’ve never spoken to the group since. Except one of them. At some points in our lives, we do end up getting a true friend, but if a dishonest friend ends up leaving a lasting impression on us, it could affect how we trust others. I wasn’t ever able to get over the fight, it still haunts me to this day that we haven’t been able to fix what happened.
From the opposite point, it very well may be painful if a friend lies in public, but out in the open, a genuine friend will never do this yet a fake one won't think about the consequences of this exchange, they won't consider your emotions, for example, disgrace, humiliation. I also now hear that the same boy continues to bad mouth me at his new school, thankfully I’ve got friends there to tell him to stop. He was prepared to sell me out instantly as soon as our group separated. He didn’t think of what was going to happen next, and from what I’ve heard, he isn’t liked very much at the new school. Consequences will eventually come back to bite you.
I believe that it isn't good to have enemies, yet it is more terrible to have lying friends, since you stay with individuals who are near you, you share practically all the things with them. An honest enemy is in most cases better than a lying friend, as you can discover a great deal of things about yourself with the ability to grow and become a better person later. An enemy does not need to mislead you, so they can come clean about certain things. Having an enemy be honest rather than lie to you is almost better in every way. Even though an honest enemy may seem bad in the long run, it is better as I’ll at least know the truth and am not being deceived. Lots of people would rather have the ugly truth rather than the beautiful lie, as being lied to about things is worse than being dishonest straight up to a person who calls you a friend. Lying friends aren’t true friends, but having an honest enemy means there’s an amount of respect that the opposite person has for you. I’ll admit, there was someone I hated when I was in the fifth grade. We both considered each other as rivals, we both wanted to be better than the other. Although we hated each other, we knew that we both had a deep respect for the other person as we valued each of our talents. He was honest with his criticism and I was mine. Lots of my friends back then used to praise me for my musical talents, but never did anything to push me and never actually encouraged me to do better. Having my rival be there to challenge and critique me on my work helped me push to do better.
Therefore, it’s not good to be lied to by a person that you care for, but rather have the honesty of someone that you consider an enemy. I hope you all enjoyed it, whether you agree or not, thank you for listening.
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